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The girls are now settled back into their new classes and the school routine. I am delighted that they both like their new teachers and so far everything is going well. DD1 in particular seems to be thriving and really enjoys her new teacher’s approach to learning and his sense of humour.
Listening to the girls talking about school got me thinking about my own school days. There were good teachers and bad teachers, nice teachers and not so nice teachers. All those teachers affected how I felt about school when I was in their class. For me, one teacher in particular stands out. She was a little bit ahead of her time, rewarding us for good behaviour when it was more common for teachers to punish bad behaviour.
If we behaved well during the week, she rewarded the class each Friday by reading a chapter in a book that she had chosen. The first book she read for us was “The Flight of The Doves” by Walter Macken. It tells the story of two children Finn and Dervil Dove and the adventures they had while escaping from their cruel stepfather in England to live with their granny in Ireland. Every child that passed through that teacher’s class remembers that book. The promise of a new chapter next week kept our class pretty well behaved.
I recently read Flight of the Doves to my own children, a chapter a night at bedtime. Though the story is based in the Ireland of the 1960s/1970s and is a bit dated in places, the girls loved it and got completely caught up in the storyline.
Now I know teaching is about making sure pupils can read, write, add and subtract, while also dealing with personalities and parents. But it is also about inspiring children, developing their imaginations. It is about leaving children with good memories of learning in your class. That teacher read the Flight of the Doves because she loved the story despite reading it to each new class, every year, for God knows how many years. I have never forgotten that book and I in turn have read it to my children. A legacy, memory of something enjoyable, passed from teacher to pupil and on again. That is what teaching is about.
I’ve been privy to a few conversations recently where parents are trying to deal with children who have taken a dislike to their teachers. I don’t envy that situation. One parent recently commented on twitter that her son had only just started school and after one week he already doesn’t like his teacher (he said the teacher was cross with him) and now he doesn’t want to go at all. What a horrible start to his school life. Every child starts school with dreams of fun, learning and being one of the big kids. A quote from WB Yeats comes to mind “Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.”.
Both my girls had lovely teachers when they were starting school and it made life much easier. Hopefully one day that little boy will learn to love school when he meets an inspiring teacher. One who will pass on to him their love of a subject, or a book, and will inspire him with happy memories of learning in school.

So true, Ellie. Each year I remind my children that some years there are good teachers and some years….not so good, with that reminder comes the lesson of prepping us for life, work, etc. So far this year, we are 75% on the “likable” teachers; as for the 25% we will manage through the year…we’ve had her before :-/
Blessings!!
Thats for sure. I keep telling my kids they will meet the same personalities all through life so they need to know how to deal with all this stuff.
I’m intrigued about this book…have put it on my op-shop ‘watch list’. I was a very average student until I reached my Year 12 English class and read Wuthering Heights under the tutelage of a very inspiring teacher. That year – to everyone’s surprise – I went from mediocre English grades to the top of my English class. I then went on to major in English and Law at University. I still think it was due to this particular teacher and this particular book.
Wow! Thats amazing – great to know teachers have so much power to inspire.
Your teacher sounds great. It is cool & daunting when you consider the impact a teacher can have.
So true, when you think of it, teachers occupy lots of time during our childhood days so they definitely have an impact.
One of my favourite books too Ellie –
I come from a family of teachers Ellie and yes – they have to power to make school a fun and fabulous place …. igniting imagination and fostering a love for learning. I hope your friends little fella is hanging in there. I am having a hard time myself adjusting to being back in college :0) #backtoschoolblues
I hope you’ve got over your back to school blues by now. Bet you feel like you were never away from college at all.
A wonderful quote that should be kept in mind when teaching children–I had some teachers who really motivated me — I love that you are reading a book you loved so much to your own children and it was because of a wonderful teacher
Some teachers just know how important their job is and they do it well — others don’t…………..
Very true. And we just have to equip our kids to deal with them all!!
I’ve read Walter Maken’s trilogy – he’s a wonderful writer. What a lovely memory. Teachers can make such a difference in children’s lives!
I think I will re-read some more of his books. It was great fun reading The Flight of The Doves after all this time.
There is much to teaching, and you have captured an important moment. Each teacher influences students in different ways, and the fact that you shared that book with your children, I’m sure your teacher just smiled. Thanks for sharing.
And thanks for visiting! Great to see you here again.
I remember some teachers having favorites. One of them would never let me stay after school to do the bulletin board with her and her possey. Can you imagine???? I ended being the artist of the group. How ironic!
Good for you! Thats one way to beat the posse.
Great post Ellie. I’m afraid I was one of the ones who never really liked school so did all I could to get out of it – how I wish I knew then what I know now!!
I think being a teacher must be one of the hardest jobs you could ever do. You need to be a mentor, a disciplinarian, a referee and a counsellor. Everyone speaks of the long holidays, but don’t take in to account the hours spent outside the classroom and the abuse some teachers have to take nowadays without being able to do much about it. Wouldn’t do it myself for love nor money!
Yes its a job with a bit of everything thrown in. I definitely think some people are suited to it and some aren’t. Like most things in life I suppose.
I loved when our 6th-8th grade English teacher read aloud to us! It was my favorite time of the day. What an awesome way to “reward” students. I was a high school teacher & if I ever go back to the classroom I may have to try this
By the way, I’m always looking for new books to read (especially YA fiction) – thanks for sharing!
Its funny most people think reading aloud should stop once the child can read for themselves but sometimes it is nice to sit back and listen to a story. No matter what age you are!
Lovely post. Takes me back to my school days, remembering those special teachers who really did make a difference. Though, overall, I didn’t enjoy school. I was a reader and school got in the way of that! I was always getting in trouble for reading something else when I was supposed to be paying attention.
I love the Yeats quote. I had never heard of the book, though. I wonder if I can find it online? I’ll have to go look.
If you click on the name of the book in my post Mary then it will take you to the book on Amazon.
Thank you, Ellie. I thought of that right after I posted my comment. I followed the link and actually got to read the first chapter of the book – or at least enough to get me hooked. I ordered it and now await its delivery. I’m looking forward to reading it.
Oh I hope you like it! Let me know what you think when you’ve read it.
Your post and the comments reminded me of a quote from Maria Montessori: “The training of the teacher who is to help life is something far more than the learning of ideas. It includes the training of character; it is a preparation of the spirit.” A teacher’s journey/calling is not for the fainthearted…there are a lot of lives in the balance…
So very true.
Teachers are so important in our children’s lives. A good teacher can nurture and inspire a child, sparking off interest in different subjects while an unsympathetic teacher can turn a pupil off a subject for life. I think teaching is a real vocation and it really annoys me to hear some people and sections of the media give out about teachers.
Yes definitely a vocation. A good teacher is worth their weight in gold.
I am going to look for the book too. I hope the teacher grows on him as time goes on.
Me too. I feel sorry for the little fella.
The Flight of the Doves – what a great yarn!
I was surprised how much I enjoyed reading it to my kids. Its short but a very exciting story – I haven’t seen my kids so excited about a story in a long time and they are avid readers.
A gifted teacher is a true blessing to a mum, Ellie…
Well said.